Sunday, May 31, 2009

I have 8-9 months......

Today, we went to Jigar's house.... his wife came back from Gujarat after 9 months, his baby is six months now so we went there to see his baby.... she is so cute and charming....chhoooo sweet.......
but what I saw is that Jigar and Bhabhi both very busy due to her... she needs constant attention....continues care..... and then I realize... after 8-9 months later.. I will be at the same place... currnetly.. 5th month is going on, after two months, Rinku will go surat and than after 2 months... I will be a father... dad.... Imagine how I look like a father... my friends Mehul and Rajesh, made my joke.. by making gesturing of baby in hand.... even I had a good laugh at this... how I look like with baby in my hand... anyway thats not the point but I know now that child will keep me busy... very busy.. I heard that from many of my friends who is now proud dadies.... but today I saw my self... Jigar & Bhabhi... and I realized that reality.... and then I thought.. ok so now I have 8-9 months to do things I wanted to do... then god knows when I will get time.... I am really amazed how Alpesh sir manage... Sir... please throw some light on it and give me some guidance....

3 comments:

Alpesh Bhalala said...

Dear Anish,

Congratulations!

I dont understand why you take this in a negative way.. I would say your most enjoyably days are coming on. Just feel it up with joy and be prepared to enjoy full of it. Its a gift from the God and you will like nurturing it everyday. Like we do plant some flowers at home and take care everyday gives us good days, satisfaction and joy... This would be even better experience as you are cultivating a human who can response your acts, unlike a plant.

So be prepared to have more satisfied life ahead.. a little responsibility too but in our society i dont this it adds much on responsibility. As you are well-settled it will affect you at all.

Start thinking on 'Names'.. if you are planning to go by Rashi, you might need two sets of names for each rashi. ( personally I dont like the idea, but you two has to decide it)

We will wait to welcome the baby.. Update us about the most joyful moment. (For women, its such a joyful event they even suppress the most painful event of the life under it)

Astu!

Anish Patel said...

Thanks Sir...for Congrats and Advices... Thanks a lot...

and I m not taking negatively.... I just want to say that I know I will be very busy after child's birth....

Rita said...

hey ... enough macho things you have done in your life…. Now its time to come down to real world… Baby’s Daddy… ;) Yes at first place... its become little bit harder to believe one naughty boy getting role of father… ha ha… 

Hey but it’s equally true that its harder to be a father than senior software engineer… its required lot many certifications to be passed (like PNH – Practitioner in nappies Handling ) he he…. I m totally agree wid Alpesh sir that it’s all enjoyable responsibility … n every new experience comes with lots of excitement right… so enjoy all of them at your best…

As you are well planner, responsible, have patience, calm coping, caring and supporting …things are not gng to change for you …in fact things gng to be smooth for your wify n your little angle…

We are waiting for that lovely moment to come… one more party will be due boy… just keep counting it….